Bowlim, I guarantee you can't tell where my taper starts on a parallel/taper lam... unless you have just the single lam in one hand and a mic in the other. Even then, good luck guessin'. In a bow blank or even a finished bow, nope.
If I were you Wonderbowman, I'd build a simple, single taper lam sled. It can be used to make single taper lams, parallel/tapered, double tapered lams, and more.
I've ground lams both ways you mentioned... with a parallel section under the riser and then tapering toward the tips.... and with lams that are tapered their entire length.... bow center to tips. Which type I choose to make depends on many factors, but I don't think we need to get into a whole lot of depth with that right now. This IS your first bow, and what I'm about to tell ya will be more of a 'how-to' than a 'why-to' :^)
Tapering from center is a little more simple and straightforward, imo, and is where I would suggest you begin for your first bow... being that you're also grinding your own lams... for the first time.
You didn't mention if you were using full length lams, or lams that will be joined at their butts, that is, with their thicker ends joined with a scarf joint. No matter, I'll outline how I do butt jointed lams with a parallel portion in them in case that's the route you decide to go.
If it's a two piece/spliced lam, I cut and grind both pieces the same thickness, but a bit thicker than the thickness of the finished parallel section. It sounds like you may be at this stage now...???
Glue them together with a scarf joint and let them cure. Then grind this new 'one piece lam' until its thickness is precisely what you want the finished parallel portion to be. We now have a full length parallel lam that needs its tapers ground in each direction, fades to outer ends.
Use a pencil and draw a light line across the width of the lams in the two spots you want the tapering to stop... i.e. just beyond the ends of the fadeouts. Then draw a line from there down the length of the lam toward the tips just for reference... so as succeeding light passes are made with the thickness sander, while grinding in the taper, you can watch the leading edge of the taper remove your longitudinal pencil mark as it works it's way up the lam toward the 'stop mark'... the pencil line 'across' the lam. Stop when you get there. That's it. You're done. A parallel/tapered lam. If your lam sled is 4" or so wide, you can grind two at a time if they're to be of identical dimensions.
Does that make sense? It's actually pretty easy, accurate, and you don't need a special sled to make a par/taper lam.
If you have any questions at all, fire away. If you need me to post pictures or something, holla.
Now let's get some dust in the air!